Men and Women can be just friends
I like to argue this whenever someone claims they can't be
however i'm starting to think this is not true
just a few hints for the men out there:
If a female is constantly talking about her boyfriend (even if he is overseas) its a pretty good indication she has feelings for him and is not interested in you.
If a female sees where the conversation and/or physical interaction is going and moves away or changes the subject its probably because she is not interested.
If the matter has been discussed once and she says she is not interested a first time then more than likely she will not be interested a second time, if she is watch for very obvious signs.
It will avoid the un-necessary and extremely awkward and uncomfortable situation i was in on sat night when a male friend lunged at me. (this is the second time a male friend has attempted to turn a friendship into more since i got back)
From now on i'm staying away from un-attached straight men. It seems that the only relationship they are interested is not a friendship.
Monday, August 23, 2004
Sunday, August 22, 2004
The good, bad and ugly
UGLY
- people who project all their build up anger (over stupid trivial things) onto little ol me just because i answer the phone on behalf of the company on a SUNDAY.
- many of my co-workers (see entry below) at my full time job.
BAD
- working 14 days straight (will be a total of 18)
- issues with a friend who has issues
- credit card debt
- a $300 phone bill
- lack of 'proper' career options at present
- sitting in traffic for 1 hour on the way to and from work on weekdays
GOOD
- i'm still in lurrrve
- shopping on thur night and buying 4 items of clothing (including a coat) for $45 dollars
- friends
- family
- vo
- HIAV shepherds pie
- droste bittersweet dark chocolate
- with all the work i'm doing i'm bound to get out of my sucky financial situation soon
- a day off on friday
- chance toby will come to melb soon
- beating the odds (everyone else is sick and huge climate change) and not getting sick
Tuesday, August 17, 2004
Racism in the workplace
Her: I hate the Chinese (motioning towards the Japanese athlete)
Me: He's Japanese
H: All the same thing. I hate them all.
M: why?
H: I'm racist (laughs), no because they bring drugs into this country, and kill our people
M: They kill out people through drugs? (getting confused and more and more outraged)
H: Yeh and with their machetes, you never see anyone else with machetes
Her: I hate the Chinese (motioning towards the Japanese athlete)
Me: He's Japanese
H: All the same thing. I hate them all.
M: why?
H: I'm racist (laughs), no because they bring drugs into this country, and kill our people
M: They kill out people through drugs? (getting confused and more and more outraged)
H: Yeh and with their machetes, you never see anyone else with machetes
Sunday, August 15, 2004
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